Petal Of Loving

hey, are you my soul mate ?

" inside the heart of each and every one of us 

there is a longing to be understood by

someone really cares. when a person is

 understood, he or she can put up 

with almost anything in world "

i think if you were to be with the RIGHT one, you would know that you want to be with that person from very start. you decided she/he is the one you want, then you both start working toward a future together.

you don't start relationship "wondering" and hoping, waiting and putting that person through a series of tests. having check boxes, each time he/she does something right, you enter a check mark, and when they do something wrong, you deduct point.

ask yourself, do you truly love that person, or are you in love with the idea of being relationship and since the person is there, you just go along with it for the sake of convenience.

there has to be a magic between the two of you, a connection that cannot be explained, a feeling like in your previous lives you have met before and meant to be together against all odds. your heart needs to skip a beat when you think of him/her. even after years, she/he still excites you.

don't be in relationship just because you are in love with being  in love or being in love with being in a relationship. fight for the right one. there is someone who just meant for you but you have to be patient. don't just settle for any boy or girl who just happens to come across your path.
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it's a feeling of happiness bursting, you are so grateful they are in you life.

book of : "oh, i thought i was the only one - kopi soh "